The Life Of A Victorian Child in America
by Victoriana Lady Lisa
The
life of a Victorian child in America was either privileged, or extremely difficult,
depending on what social class they were born into. Until age five, both boys and girls wore dresses. It was more practical to change the baby's diaper and toilet train this way. How can one tell the gender of the child in photos? It's easy, a baby boy had his hair parted on the side, while a baby girl had her hair parted in the middle.
| Victoriana Lady Lisa's great uncle Charles Weber wearing the traditional dress, circa 1890 |
Since the majority
of children were of the working class, we shall take a look at their
lives first.The
day began with chores bright and early in the morning. The ashes had to
be emptied from the stove and wood had to be cut and stacked for
cooking. The youngest child had the dreaded job of emptying
the chamber pots each morning. If it was Monday, there was the tedious task of
laundry.
Girls helped their mother prepare food, cook, clean, sew, and
watch the younger siblings. Boys did the heavier work with father, often
working in the fields, or cleaning stalls and feeding the animals. If
the family was fortunate to own a cow there was milking to be done in
order for the family to have fresh milk.
Victorian
families of the working lower class worked from sun up until sun down,
including the children. Before child labor laws were passed many
children went to work outside of the home to help support their family’s
meager wages.
A child who worked in a mill joining pieces
of thread together was called a piecer. This was usually a job for young
girls, often as young as six years old.
Boys as young as seven often
worked as Breaker Boys in the coal mining industry, prevalent in PA.
Their job was quite dangerous, they sat over the coal chutes as the coal
came down fast and furious. The young boys had to pick out the slate mixed in with the coal, if they were not fast enough they could
lose a finger or two.
In
1870 a new law was passed declaring that every village had to have a
school. Very few children of the poor working class attended school
since they too were working to help support the family income. Children
of the middle class did attend school. Boys and girls went into the
school through separate doors and sat in separate rows. They were taught
reading, writing, spelling and arithmetic. Boys were taught extra
lessons in math and science. Girls learned sewing and other household
skills then stopped going to school in the eighth grade, while the boys
went on to the twelfth grade. A wealthy young man went on to get a
college education.
Young
children from wealthy families ate, slept and played in the nursery, a
large room often at the top story of the home with a nanny who looked
after them. They enjoyed playing with fine toys such as wooden rocking
horses, trains, dollhouses, china tea sets, kites, porcelain dolls, and
puppets. Punch & Judy were favorites with the children who often had
their own wooden puppet theater. Victorian children were not allowed to
play with toys on Sunday unless they had a biblical theme, for example a
wooden Noah’s Ark set. Older
children from wealthy families had their own teacher, called a governess. She
taught both the boys and girls until the boys were sent away to boarding
school.
Many wonderful classic books came out of the Victorian era.
Alice In Wonderland, Little Women, Ann of Green Gables, A Christmas
Carol, The Jungle Book, Pollyanna, The Little Princess, The Secret
Garden and Treasure Island, just to name a few. Rich children were
fortunate to have staff and servants so they had very little chores and
responsibilities, leaving more time to read and play.
Children
from well to do families also enjoyed many wonderful treats. Some of
the newly invented sweets included fairy floss, which we call cotton
candy today. Taffy, fudge, rock candy, animal crackers and
chocolate candy was also enjoyed. One of their favorite treats, and also
a favorite with adults, was ice cream. Victorians could not get enough
of the new sweet frozen treat! Lower class children were thankful to suck on
ice chips received from the ice man on a hot day.
A candy pulling hook
Wealthy children dressed in a miniature
version of styles very much like that of their parents. Boys were breeched and wore
knickers at five years old and a shirt, jacket and cap. At age 10 they
graduated to long trousers like father, signifying that the boy was now a
young man.
Little girls wore fancy dresses with a hem length to their
calves, often with a pinafore over the dress. Their hair was worn in
pony tails, baloney curls, or braids.
At the age of 16 a young lady was no longer
considered a child and had a grand coming out party to introduce her to
society as being eligible for marriage. At this age she was fitted for a
corset, her hem length now went down to the floor and her hair went up
in an updo style, very proper for a lady in society.
Poor or wealthy, Victorian children had to learn manners and proper
behavior at all times. Respect was expected, if a child disobeyed they
would have their ears boxed.
It is an interesting
comparison, the Victorian children were a product of the Industrial
Revolution. Today’s
children are living in the Technical Cyberspace Revolution. I dare say
that if a child of today could go back in time to his or her ancestor’s
childhood it would be an interesting scene at best! I don’t think they
would last ten minutes without their cell phones and computers.
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